Restless: Because You Were Made for More

Restless: Because You Were Made for More

by Jennie Allen


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Do You Feel Like You're Missing Something? Jennie Allen, founder of If: Gathering, directs you on how to find the best way to use your spiritual gifts.

What if this feeling wasn’t a bad thing? It could be a longing for more of God and a catalyst to living the life that was designed before the foundations of the earth were laid.

A lot of us, if we’re honest, are afraid. We hold our dreams close to our chest. But our passions have a purpose—they were engineered for God’s greater plan and he intends for us to use them for his glory and purposes.

In Restless, Bible teacher and fellow struggler Jennie Allen explores practical ways to identify the threads of your life and how to intentionally weave them together. She explains how your gifts, passions, places, and relationships aren’t random; they’re deliberate and meaningful. And your suffering—it’s possible it has produced the very thing you want to give back to the world.

Using the story of Joseph, the dreamer, Jennie explains how his suffering, gifts, relationships—all of the threads of his life—fit into the greater story of God and how our stories can do the same. What would happen if God got bigger than your fear and insecurity, and you spent the rest of your life running without reservation after his purposes for you? You were created for more.

To dive deeper into the Restless message, additional resources such as a DVD study and leader/participant guide books are available.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780849947063
Publisher: Nelson, Thomas, Inc.
Publication date: 01/14/2014
Pages: 192
Sales rank: 107,973
Product dimensions: 5.40(w) x 8.30(h) x 0.80(d)

About the Author

Jennie Allen is an Arkansas native but Texan forever, Bible teacher, author, and the founder and visionary of IF:Gathering. A passionate leader following God’s call on her life to catalyze this generation to live what they believe, Jennie is the author of Restless, Anything, and her most recent book, Nothing to Prove. Her Bible studies include Stuck, Chase, Restless, and Proven. Jennie has a master's in biblical studies from Dallas Theological Seminary and lives in Dallas, Texas, with her husband and teammate, Zac, and their four children, Conner, Kate, Caroline, and Cooper.

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Copyright © 2013 Jennie Allen
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As I stared at the ceiling, I saw the scrape marks. Right after we had moved into our first house, Zac, my husband, scraped off the popcorn-textured ceiling. You'd think that would be something you'd never really notice—the ceiling—but it was something I stared at every afternoon. I stared as my newborn son slept. I had nowhere to be. Nothing to do.

I would lie on my beige sofa and stare at the marks that had been left in, trying to make something perfect of it. And in the quiet, surrounded by everything I thought I'd ever wanted, I felt that everything I'd ever wanted was strangling me.

I loved my family, but in the process of making a family I had somehow lost myself. Passions were pushed aside, dreams had trickled away, and the needs of other people outside my family had escaped me. My entire former life had been shut down for the immediate demands of one little person. I wondered if it was wrong to care about anything or anyone outside of these four walls. I wondered if I would feel permission to dream again.

I didn't need to find a career or even a calling. I had one. Motherhood. What I needed was a sense of purpose. I felt restless.

Was this feeling pushing me toward something bigger, or crippling me from loving the life I was given?

Maybe it was both.

Something in me still feels restless.

As we stare at the marks on the lives we have tried to make perfect, we ache a little.

The word calling has always seemed to tease me, like a mysterious secret containing the answer to my ridiculously restless spirit. We wonder if we are missing some mystical, great, noble purpose that was supposed to squeeze into the holes of our ordinary lives.

We feel numb.

We feel bored.

Let's assume that if we are breathing, then we have a purpose for being here. Every one of us with breath in our lungs still has something left to do.

I want to dream of what our purposes may be.

The conviction to write this book was born out of conversations with many of you. Since I wrote the first book, Anything, the most consistent thing I have been asked is some version of this question:

"I am in. I am all surrendered to God. But now what? I don't know what he wants me to do."

Every single one of us is designed to fit into a unique space with unique offerings. God's will for every one of us will look different. There is a framework within the commandments of Scripture, and within it we are free to create lives reflecting God and his passions here.

As I have wrestled with calling and purpose and dreaming this year, I have fallen deeply in love with the life of a man who surely lived restlessly in Scripture. Joseph's story, told throughout Genesis 37–50, is the story of a life that at times felt wasted, and yet God was working in every moment that felt mundane and unfair and dark, moving all of the mess into his unique purpose and calling.

This is a book about God.

And this is a book about us and God. And this is a book about the moment we close our eyes and see God. This is a book about facing the God of the universe and answering to him about the life and resources he gives us while we are here.

And because I think we all want that moment to go well, this is a book about discovering ourselves and getting over ourselves all at the same time. This is a book about being brave enough to imagine a better world, and how we may be used to make it that way. This is a book about changing the world and changing diapers. This is a book about fears and suffering and joy and gifts. This is a book about all that lies in our control and how nothing is in our control. This is a book about vision and obedience.

I feel a weight.

An indescribable burden.

A holy, God-given passion burning in my soul for you, for us, for our time here. Because I know we will blink and be together with God forever and there is life to be lived here, in our generation, on this earth, with our breath.

So I humbly ask you, dream with me.

We will lay out the unique threads of our lives that feel random, potentially even tangling us up, but we will lay them out and dream about eternal purposes for seemingly mundane moments and consider that it is possible to waste our lives.

And then let's not.

I'm not good with catchy titles. I just name projects based on how I feel ... so here it is—here is what I feel, and I have a hunch I am not the only one:

Restless ... because you were made for more.

I believe this is from God, and I pray it will spark something in you ... a vision, perhaps, of the unique reason God keeps issuing you breath.

I am going to ask you to join me in what might be a very uncomfortable process: I want you to dare to believe that God has a vision for how you are to spend your life. Because finding and accomplishing this vision is quite possibly the greatest responsibility we have as a generation, second only to knowing and loving God.

I wish I could promise magical moments with angels scripting visions in the sky just for you. I wish I could promise that at the end of our time together, you would never feel empty, numb, or bored again. I can't. But if you go here with me—I think we will see God move.

We have a call to dream.

The Old Testament described a day in the future about which God said:

I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your old men will dream dreams, your young men will see visions. (Joel 2:28)

God promised a day would come when his people would be filled with his own Spirit. And when they were full of God, God himself would give his people dreams and visions.

Dreams and visions.

This day has happened. The Holy Spirit flooded the earth at Pentecost, and immediately after, Peter reminded them of the promise of that day:

No, this is what was spoken by the prophet Joel:

"In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams." (Acts 2:16–17)

We live in the last days. We are filled with the Spirit of God, and we're living on this earth for relatively few days to accomplish the will and work and wonders of God. Why do we do this? So that "everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved" (Joel 2:32).

Our creative God has an infinite number of creative plans to make himself known through us, his image bearers, so he sent his Spirit to give unique visions to unique people to reach the world in unique and beautiful ways.

The Spirit of God has dreams for you.

And he has given you an abundance of gifts, resources, people, and vision to accomplish his dreams for you. If you do not feel that way yet, you will.

What if?

What if the things you love to do collided with the plans God has laid out for you from before the foundations of the earth?

What if the random relationships and activities in your life all of a sudden had a focus and felt intentional and meaningful?

What if the things that have caused the most hurt in your life became the birthplaces of your deepest passions?

What if you could get past your fears and insecurities and spend the rest of your life running your guts out after his purposes for you?

The beige sofa upstairs is unthinkably dirty with the stains of over a decade of beautiful messy life; my quiet, sleeping baby turned into four big kids; and my minutes are overflowing now, filled with it all. Life. But I still feel it sometimes ... a whisper of more. Not more because what I am doing isn't important, but because I so rarely believe that it is.

May this be the place where your restless soul meets God, and where dirty, beige sofas become beautiful, and where no life or minute or breath ever feels small again.



I was unusually empty and didn't have the patience to give a funny opening illustration to cut the tension. With scripted notes in my hand and fifty women staring at me, expecting a typical church retreat in the middle-of-nowhere Texas, I paused. And in the space of that silence, I saw the same look in their eyes that I knew was in mine.

What was I going to do—follow the script? I sat in a room full of women who were hurting, doubting, numb, tired, insecure; and their teacher was feeling all the same things. What was supposed to happen here?

I set down my notes.

I was struck with the idea that the lot of us may never be in the same room again this side of heaven, and, overwhelmed with the need I saw in front of me, I opened with these words:

"We have a little bit of time together—how about we just get after it? How about we really deal with our sin and hurt? How about we fight to find God here? And then let's dream about how we display God while we are on earth for a few years."

And I am almost certain everyone was looking at me, thinking, No, seriously girl, where's the funny story?

But then something happened. God's Spirit blew in and, with their eyes cutting across the room, hoping maybe it was safe enough, the women slowly let words fall out.

"I honestly don't care about God."

"I don't think God cares about me."

"I am afraid what people will think."

"I want a comfortable life."

"My spouse won't be on board."

"I think I will fail."

"I have nothing to give God."

"I don't think my life even matters this much."

Then, with all the mess of it pooling on the floor of our cabin, I looked around the room and saw a hint of something—a little sparkle, possible hope in their eyes.

Maybe this isn't life, I thought. These thoughts can't be from God.

The worries that had consumed each person moments before all of a sudden looked miserably ridiculous staring back at them. The realization needed no words to help form it. We were faced with a simple, striking image: strong, resourced, rescued people, full of God, going through life completely shut down by lies and fear.

Could it be possible there is more to life than this?

We were all certain that there was, and with all the chains on the floor, we could almost taste what we had been missing. We were about to remember what running with abandon felt like, what purpose felt like, what dreaming felt like, what freedom felt like.

Do you need to remember that there is more?

How to run freely?

What purpose feels like?

What freedom feels like?

Some of us have decorated our prison walls so beautifully that we have altogether forgotten we are sitting in a cell, wasting our lives. We don't know there are chains that, though they no longer bind us, still seem to tangle us up. We sit and listen to talks or read books about God, and we wonder why nothing changes when we so desperately want it to.


When I saw Batman Begins for the first time, I kept punching my husband's arm because I was coming out of my skin. I was so moved, so inspired. (Batman Begins, in Christopher Nolan's Batman trilogy, is hands down one of the best films on planet Earth.) A young Bruce Wayne watches as his parents are shot and killed, and he spends the next decade of his life seeking revenge, wandering the world as a restless, unsatisfied, lost soul and committing crimes. Bruce is insanely wealthy, trained, and gifted, but he has nothing to live for—no focus, no drive other than pain.

I picture his life as a bunch of loose threads: his pain, his wealth, his potential, his training, his gifts, the fate of his city blowing around in the wind as he tries to escape his pain. These are threads he wishes he could cut—they have no semblance of order or purpose; they seem to be entangling him, certainly not empowering him.

I picture his life when I look into most people's eyes. They have a similar look to them—hungry, unsettled, slightly unsure. But you can see in others only what you have tasted yourself.

Somewhere in the chaos of Batman's search, the threads of his life begin to untangle and weave themselves into something new. Something potentially epic. Bruce can't escape the great pain and need screaming all around him in his home city of Gotham, so despite his reluctance and suffering, the threads of his life somehow bind together and equip him to meet that great need. The need finds him. Ironically, his purpose is woven together with the very threads that seemed to entangle him.

Out of Bruce Wayne's deepest tragedy, fear, and pain—Batman is born.

Every one of us has a version of this same story in us. Some of you are thinking, Yes, Jennie. I always think to myself, "Batman and I have so much in common."

For the rest of you, here is where all of our stories converge:

You have threads of life blowing around, possibly even strangling you—threads that are meant to bind together and become your unique, God-given contribution to a world in great need. And not just for a world in need, but our souls were made to find their home in God with God's purposes for our life.


No unique purpose for your life will fill your soul. The only thing that will fulfill and settle your soul is God himself.

I am writing while neck-deep in the midst of what some may think is a great purpose. Zac and I are running hard toward God and doing our best to complete the works he is putting in our path for us to do for him. We are doing our best to raise our kids to love God and not be little punks. Zac is leading a church full of people who are hurting, and he spends most of his days looking people in the eyes and listening to their needs. I am writing and speaking the things God has given me to say. On some days, our threads seem to be meshing into something useful. I have never felt more peace and more joy, and yet life has never been more difficult.

Like today, for instance, I fight a deep desire to shut down this work, crawl back into bed, and live like this isn't important. I still feel restless. I struggle to keep pace with God, and I still fight my sin.

That's how I feel today. Now let me tell you what I know.

Our God is real.

Our God is coming.

Our God has plans for us.

Our lives are short.

We must get after it.

Because heaven is coming fast.

And what we are about to do here is urgent.

It's more urgent than we could ever imagine. We get to play little parts in the epic story of a God who put this whole universe in motion with a word.



Figure out what it means to run after God. Throw off what is holding you back. Find and live your part in his story. That is what we are going to do here in this journey together. And if ten of us do the work, it will all be worth it. Our generation could mark this earth and stamp it with the brand of a God who we all decided was worth it.

We tend to think that if we can land on our perfect purpose for our lives, we will finally be satisfied. Hear me: we have complete access to joy and purpose right now. Even with no grand vision from God, we have access to our Creator, and he is not hiding happiness from us. He gave it to us in the form of Christ. Everything we are going to talk about is just a response to our God. Our mattering doesn't depend on a stellar performance. We matter because we are children of the living, breathing, reigning God of the universe. We matter because we were bought with the blood of the Son of our Father God. He set us in our spots and in our time. He numbered our days and counts our hair. And we matter because he says we matter. This isn't a book about you suddenly finding a secret way to matter; it's about realizing you already matter, and therefore you can deeply desire to make your few days here count in light of all that is ahead for us as children of such a God.

* * *

I've wasted a lot of my life. I grew up with a sickening chase to win people's approval that I could not ever catch. And so I have given most of my life to the cause of being liked. God was never enough for me.

It's not a noble cause. It's embarrassing, and I am sorry, because you probably were deeply hoping you picked up the book of a saint. You picked up the book of a sinner—likely a sinner worse than you. But chances are you aren't noble either, and likely you have wasted your life on ... something.

But what if we just stop? What if we wake up? We are building mansions on sand when an enormous, steadfast, unmovable rock sits right beside us. This is why I will not put down my work and crawl into bed today, and I will stay and speak these words to you. Because for years I ran after uncatchable wind and built homes on sand, until I finally noticed that wind never stops escaping us and sand never stops shifting.

After a childhood observing a God I didn't need, at seventeen years old, I stood in front of three crosses at Kanakuk Kamp. I looked up at them and wondered at my own crimes, which had always seemed small until that moment. I looked at the crosses, and at the Jesus I had heard about all my life, and it occurred to me that I hung him there. I did it with my heart that loved people more than God—my heart that was black from building monuments to my reputation. I was haunted by pride and self, captivated with it all, bound by invisible chains heavier than the ones this world shames.

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Table of Contents

Part 1 The Call

1 A Call to Dream 3

2 Tangled Threads 9

3 Die to Live 16

4 Permission to Dream 25

5 Uncertainties 32

6 Pleasing God 44

7 A Parable 54

Part 2 The Threads

8 The Process 63

9 The Project 72

10 The Immovable Fabric 80

11 The Starting Place 90

12 Threads of Gifts 98

13 Threads of Suffering 108

14 Threads of Places 120

15 Threads of People 130

16 Threads of Passions 142

17 The Tailor 150

18 Your Threads 160

Part 3 Living on Purpose

19 Untangling a Dream 167

20 Shrinking Back 177

21 When Women Dream 186

22 Focused and Steady 199

23 The End of Mundane 204

How to Find God 209

Leaving Behind & Moving Forward 211

Acknowledgments 213

Notes 217

About the Author 221

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Restless: Because You Were Made for More 4.6 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 8 reviews.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
After reading (and loving) Jennie's first book, Anything, I couldn't wait to start Restless. It does not disappoint. The first half of the book encourages women to dream of what Jesus might do with their lives, to throw off the sin that hinders, to run the race to bring glory to God. It is a call to women to get over ourselves, quit fearing other people, and to change our focus to whether we are pleasing God. The second part of the book is very interactive and it allows women to dig in and work with God in reflection on your own life and the Word. Through reading and journaling, you identify the "threads" of your life - the things that make up the who, what, when and where of your life - acknowledging that all of those threads are not accidents but are in the overarching plan of a Sovereign God. Jennie helps women see that we were each created to have a unique part of God's story - God's story of redeeming a broken world that is desperately in need of Him. And, she does a fabulous job of helping us to acknowledge why we might be afraid or pull back from dreaming of being a part of that story. Jennie has done a great job (again) with pointing women to Jesus and the beauty of a life surrendered to His purposes.
RRoode More than 1 year ago
Best book I've read in a LONG time!  The foundation of the book builds on your threads - parts of your story and who you are that come together to point to how God is using &/or wants to use you and your life.  The book is tied to the story of Joseph from the Old Testament, based on significant highs and lows in the story of his life, to show how God uses the good and the seemingly not-good as part of His plan. I picked up this book desperate for a little guidance, longing for some help in putting the pieces of my life so far together with my talents, gifts, and passions.  I needed a helping hand - one to clip and glue and piece together what it is I should be doing for God.  I got so much more from this book. Restless isn't a self-help book.  I truly believe that the Holy Spirit guided and helped Jennie Allen to write this book to assist the body of Christ so that we can take hold of the abundant life that Jesus promises abundant life of love, justice, and service to Him. I never considered how the pieces of my life and who I am could come together and give me a clear view of what God might be doing in me and through me.  The journaling approach within this book has helped me tremendously.  I liken it to God removing scales from my eyes.  Before I couldn't see it and now I do. If you're questioning what to do with your life... If you feel restless, like you could be doing more with this life that God has given you... If you want to get a clearer idea of how God has used and is using the pieces of your life to serve His greater purpose... Get your hands on a copy of Restless. *Disclaimer: I was issued a copy of this book in return for a review.  All views are my own.*
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I am not even in the third chapter and the words in this book are lighting up the holes in my soul. If you want to know how to begin finding your purpose, start with this book!
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