What Is He Thinking??: What Guys Want Us to Know About Dating, Love, and Marriage

What Is He Thinking??: What Guys Want Us to Know About Dating, Love, and Marriage

by Rebecca St. James


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In WHAT IS HE THINKING??, Rebecca interviews a range of men from high-profile types to the guys next door, men that every woman can relate to. Although the interviews focus on single guys ages 20-35, Rebecca also includes words of wisdom from older mentors she respects who have been successfully married for years, such as her dad, life coach, and pastor.

The men share their thoughts on topics like how women can respect themselves and the men in their lives, modesty, purity, taking it slow, friendship, letting guys lead, and more. This book gives them the floor to say what they would really like women to know.

The men respond candidly to questions like:

  • What is the most attractive quality to you in a woman?
  • Is modesty truly attractive?
  • Is neediness a turn-off?
  • What do you find beautiful?
  • How can we be dependent on God for our identity, not on you?
  • How can we help you with boundaries physically?
Rebecca also discusses her own dating life, speaking openly about the single life, her struggle with loneliness, and her hope for the future. She challenges women to see the men in their lives as brothers in Christ and to trust God with their dating lives.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780446572675
Publisher: FaithWords
Publication date: 09/26/2011
Pages: 155
Sales rank: 1,200,802
Product dimensions: 5.40(w) x 8.20(h) x 0.60(d)

About the Author

Australian born Rebecca St. James is a Grammy Award winner and a multiple Dove Award recipient, with international success that has driven her record sales into the millions. In January 2008, she was named Favorite Female Artist in Contemporary Christian Music by readers of CCM Magazine for the seventh consecutive year. Rebecca also won Best Female Artist of 2007 from Christianitytoday.com-her fifth consecutive year to be given this honor. She's been involved in several film productions and voiced the character of Hope the Angel in VeggieTales' bestselling DVD production The Easter Carol. You can read more about Rebecca on her official Web site: www.rsjames.com or on her Facebook page, www.facebook.com/RSJames.

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What Is He Thinking? : What Guys Want Us to Know About Dating, Love, and Marriage 4.1 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 10 reviews.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Will this help me get to know God better?
Teresa_Konopka More than 1 year ago
When I heard about this book, I really wanted to review it. After all, with all the plethora of relationship books out there, women still have questions in their minds. They biggest one is stamped on the cover of this one. What I love about this book is that James did not just put in a bunch of her advice or what she thinks guys think. No. She straight up asked guys from different ages and relationships statuses what they really thought. The questions had to do with girls, relationships, turnoffs, reactions, marriage, modesty, and so much more. From time to time, James quoted other relationship experts and some Bible verses. For the most part, a lot of this book makes sense. What girls will get out of this book more than the answer to the question on the cover is that there really are godly men out there looking to respect and honor women as the delicate flowers that they are.
Icecream18 on LibraryThing More than 1 year ago
This is a shockingly informative book for being so slim (approximately 151 pages). There are 8 chapters, each dedicated to a certain quality that is commonly thought of in dating (flirting, body image, God and guys, etc...). The author utilizes true stories about her own and others' dating experiences to help the reader understand her point. She asks men questions and provides the reader with their honest answers. In the novel, she is very persuasive concerning her views. This book is very concerned with the topic of God in dating-so if the reader does not believe or care about this quality in a date, this book is not for him/her. However, the author is not pushy with her views; they are given neutrally. This book is definitely interesting, the reader is guaranteed to learn at least one thing that he/she did not know prior to picking up the book. This book is recommended for religious men/women who enjoy nonfiction books.
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Rachelle Boydstun More than 1 year ago
I am a huge fan of rebecca i went to one of her concerts in montrose and it was awesome. For me as a 14 going on 15 this was a truely inspirational book that i would recommend to all single girls ages13 and up. This helped my relationship with my boyfriend tremendously. God is so good.
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Heart2Heart More than 1 year ago
In her book, What Is He Thinking?? Rebecca St. James touches on a particular subject all of us women are curious about: what are guys thinking about?! Especially in the context of what they think and how they feel about dating, love, and women all together. With honesty and genuine curiosity, Rebecca describes her interviews with single, and married males from all walks of life, and also tells her readers about her personal experiences in the world of dating. Rebecca also touches on true stories-of young Christian women who are sold out on God, and who are willing to take on whatever He calls them to do with their lives, especially in the dating scene. Rebecca covers a wide variety of topics in her book, offering insight into so many questions we as women have, but are not always able to find the answers to. "How important is physical attraction to a man, when they are looking for a woman to be with?", "What are guys looking for in regards to spirituality and a relationship with the Lord?". Rebecca answers these questions and more through her interviews with these men, and continues to list other questions single women have. This book not only contains answers to the questions we have about the world of men, but it also includes some fun date night ideas as well as advice on how to let a guy know you are interested. It teaches you to be confident in yourself and in your relationship with God, because that is the most important relationship you'll ever be in. Talk about a guy being committed to you! To love and cherish you! To let no good deed of yours go unseen, and to know every thought, feeling, word, action....now that's what I'm talking about! Once you have established an unbreakable and confident relationship with the Lord, things will tend to fall into place, including your relationships with other men according to his will. This book was helpful in reminding me about some of the biblical truths behind dating and marriage, and I am truly excited to apply these principles into my own dating life! I received this book, compliments of Propeller and Rebecca St. James for my honest review and would rate this book a 4 out of 5 stars; this being that though the content was priceless, it took a while to get the point across and was at times monotonous.
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Icecream18 More than 1 year ago
Review coming soon!